Handsome Holly
By Bernard
Cambridgeshire,
United Kingdom 
Thank you Poaanna for your reply to my question. I'm not too well up in understanding terms like stamens and pistiles, so I thought if I sent you a close-up of the flower (best I can do with my amateur camera) you might be able to help me deciphering the sex.
regards
Bernard
25 Sep, 2008
Answers
Lovely photo! You have four stamens which produce pollen on each flower which makes it male. There is no pistil or stigma in the centre so no female parts to pollinate and make berries.
26 Sep, 2008
Your tree is a male. so I fesr you wont get any berries. Thiis is not the kind of Holly I am used to Regards Peter
25 Sep, 2008