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Goodbye my precious boy

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I have to tell you that on Tuesday evening we had Jake put to sleep. That morning he started to fade and we knew it was time to say goodbye. The vet told us that he wasn`t in pain but was just to weak to sustain life so it made the awful decision much easier to bear. I won`t go into medical details here. Jake had cancer far too young and he just couldn`t fight it anymore. He was the bravest and the best of dogs and I miss my friend so badly. Thank you for all your words of comfort and support, they are very much appreciated and very helpful at this sad and painful time. There is someone who has been especially kind and helpful to me, you know who you are, extra special thanks to you. I took the advice you gave me and that helped more than I can say.

Yesterday I took the day off work as did Jim. We wouldn`t have been able to concentrate anyway. We walked through the woods where we walked Jake, we talked a lot, cried a lot and felt much better afterwards. Somehow we felt as though he walked with us…who knows?

Anyway, run free precious boy and chase your squirrels. Thank you for being our dog, you enriched our lives.


At the Wag and Bone show


On the beach nr Birchington, Kent


Looking serious here


Waiting for the stick to be thrown…again!


Any chance of food……?

Just resting


Well I had to go somewhere!

On the edge of Black Park lake

Love Sandra xxxx

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So very very sorry. Thinking of you....
Di x

26 Nov, 2009

 

Oh,Sandra,I am so sorry you have lost your special friend.It has brought tears to my eyes,as I know what you are going through.You have some wonderful pictures and memories to treasure,and in the meantime,just let the grieving
process happen, and day by day, it won't seem as painful for you both.
thinking of you and your Family......Sandra X

26 Nov, 2009

 

Hi Sandra...
Wonderful pics of your special boy....
You did right to wait just a while before writing this blog.
love & hugs. Terra, Conker, Truffle and Crocus. xxx

26 Nov, 2009

 

Such sad news :( your In my thoughts Lab51 God Bless Jake XXXX

26 Nov, 2009

 

Its a sad time for you and Jim....my thoughts are with you at this very sad time. Lovely pics of your boy. Take care.xx

26 Nov, 2009

 

So sorry...

26 Nov, 2009

 

I feel so much for you.This has brought back to me thoughts of our precious greyhound Jasper.We had to have him put to sleep,it will be one year on the 30th Nov. We still miss him as you will yours,but are so grateful for the time we had with him. I'm glad your friends on GOY have been and will be here for you :) Take care xxx

26 Nov, 2009

 

I'm so so sorry to hear your sad news, The more we think of our faithful friends the more we grieve. Life has to go on but we never forget them.

26 Nov, 2009

 

So sorry for your loss....judging by these great photos you have wonderful memories which will never leave you...........

26 Nov, 2009

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I'm so sorry you have lost your friend...

26 Nov, 2009

 

Sandra - I am so sorry for your loss - I really don't know what to say. All I know is things do get better in time. Take care, I'm thinking of you both. xx

26 Nov, 2009

 

I'm so sad to hear about Jake. You have been very brave. It's a difficult and awful time for you.
I'm sure he was with you on your walk. My cats often visit me. Our friends are with us for ever.
Hywel xxxx

26 Nov, 2009

 

You are so brave - and I am so sorry that you've lost your lovely boy. My love and hugs to you. xx

26 Nov, 2009

 

So sad to hear Jake has gone to his rest, he had a short life but a very full and loving one thinking of you both at this very sad time.xxx

26 Nov, 2009

 

Reading this with tears in my eyes so sorry to hear of your loss, beautiful boy, wonderful memories looking at your photos, thinking of you.

26 Nov, 2009

 

So sorry to hear of your loss my thoughts are with you both take care x

26 Nov, 2009

 

ive tears here sandra, so sorry about jake, looking at his pics just reminds me of my sheba, she to had cancer, jake was a beautifull boy, take care x
ps, only put i like blog because of the lovely pics of jake ;o)

26 Nov, 2009

 

Dear Sandra~ What a lucky dog to have had you as his owner, mom, and friend...He lived a wonderful happy life with people who cared about him as your wonderful pictures portray. As a pet person, I've been through this as well and can certainly sympathize with you. You are not alone in your grief. Best wishes~ Lisa

26 Nov, 2009

 

So so sorry to hear of your loss Sandra. My thoughts are with you at this sad time. xx

27 Nov, 2009

 

So sorry to hear about jake at least he won't suffer any more.Instead he'l be rolling round in the beautiful big garden in the sky.
Love to you and your family xxx

27 Nov, 2009

 

I'm so sorry about Jake, to lose a pet is like lossing a member of the family, infact i think its harder, my thoughts are with you.

27 Nov, 2009

 

So sorry to hear of your sad loss what a lovely dog.

30 Nov, 2009

 


So sorry Sandra, Jake was loved and cared for by you and your family and now he is no longer hurting, he was a handsome lad and I understand exactly what you went through these last weeks, my Malik also loved water so I`m hoping that both our beautiful boys are bouncing around in a lake together...
Lovely photo`s Sandra, I find it brings tears to look at ours but also so many smiles and happy memories as well.
Take care xxx.......Sue.

30 Nov, 2009

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