Gardening Questions Mystery plant

Is it outdoors or indoors? How tall is it ? and what are the leaves like? all this will help with the identification.
soory if I sound bossy, do not mean to be

Dear Bren,

I have updated my question, it may help?

I thought it might be an Echium,but now i,m not too sure as they will have very large leaves at the base,

It looks like echium wildpretti as they have dark pink flowers on a large stem like this, but as you say, Bren Echiums have a rosette of leaves at the bottom and the flower spike is more cone like