Morning,japon. Sorry to hear your news, these things are always difficult. Not offering a date, I'm too old and prefer being alone, having discovered I'm just not very good at being married, drove me bonkers both times, but even so, separation is tough when it happens, so I am offering an ear if you need it (via pm). And in case you thought different, I'm not a bloke, lol

oh dear, should have thought she would have preferred you in the garden, then she would not have to watch the horror films and football. Takes all sorts, best of luck :o)

Well she will miss out on your lovely rhododendrons. Lots of sympathy Japon - its a horrible thing to happen. I hope in time you find a soul mate who shares your love of gardening.

Thank you.... Best about it the garden is starting to look very nice Been out there all day today, Anyway im back in now lets find a good horror movie lol